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Needing a firm hand to teach me from the bottom up.

Female (51) looking for Male Austin, Texas, United States

I am a 46 year old lady. I am overweight and working on it. I have a bad temper and short patience. I need someone that won't let me talk my way out of discipline and will take charge, tell me where to be and punish me when I need it. I will test limits to see if you stick with me. I am nervous to start and need someone to take control and say this is happening.

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildBBW/BHM
Height175 cm
Eye ColorGreen
Hair ColorLight brown
Hair LengthShoulder length
Best featureEyes
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionHandicapped
Bra size42 / 95
Cup sizeDD
My AttractivenessBelow average

Situation

Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenThree or more
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationIt gets a bit crazy sometimes
Living ArrangementsWith kid(s)
AvailabilityDiscreetly
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Masters
SpecialtyOther
Employment StatusFull-time
Annual income$25,000 - $50,000
Job TitleAdvocate

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Boldness, Power, Wit
My perfect matchSomeone that is fun to hang out with but that will take control when needed

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byBondage / Discipline (B&D)
My role isBottom
I am seekingSomeone to play with
I live the lifestyleNew to it & want exposure
Experience levelBeginner
I enjoySpanking, Voyeurism
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner

Fetishes

FetishesVoyeurism

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Rarely, so I'm looking!
Sex isNot that important I'd rather cuddle
Most partners at once:Threesome M/M/F
Dirty talkNo thanks
Night life:Intimate gatherings in my home, Movies, Don't like going out

Sexual Interests

CybersexEvery once in a while
Oral Sex isIt's OK, but I prefer penetration
Anal sex isI want to try it
Sex toys:Butt plugs/probes
Size matterNo, Not at all

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Moderate with hand or implement
Role:I prefer being spanked
Use safety words:Sometimes
Turns me on:Watch spanking porn, Read spanking stories, Be scolded and told that I've been bad, Being sent to a room to wait, Being Told to Remove Pants, Being Told to Assume the Position, Being Told to Fetch the Implement, Be surprised and taken without any warning
Include sex and orgasm:Sometimes
Positions:Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk
Implement:Hand, Hairbrush, Belt, Wooden Spoon
Response:Compliance or Humble Silence
Pain level:Just Red