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mature young at heart/DWF/DD/DD/lg : need hard discipline spanking

54 y/o but young at heart. Submissive woman interested in having a LTR with a dominant man living a domestic discipline lifestyle. Due to issues I'm having with my finances and my weight I need a firm but fair gentleman who won't hesitate to take me to task about. it and when I break his rules. Because I have a high tolerance for pain, I need hard, bare bottom spankings possibly with a belt or paddle/brush. I am very outgoing, love talking to people/children like helping them when I can. I am Christian, love to listen to Music/Christian and other types, I am an avid reader (eclectic) and I have a desire to know the world around me: nature, science, how things work and exploring things that interest me.

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EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageScottish
Height6' 0" (183 cm)
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorDark brown
Hair LengthVery long
Best featureEyes
Body ArtPierced... but only ear(s)
Bra size42 / 95
Cup sizeC
My attractiveness:Average


Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsYes
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateYes
AvailabilityHotel Room
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationProfessional - Technical - Vocational School
SpecialtyMedical / Health
Employment StatusRetired
Annual incomeup to $25,000
Job TitleCertified Surgical Technologist ret..

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Wit, Thoughtfullness
My perfect matchA gentleman, possibly a Southerner or Vet, who has a dominant personality.. He will be down to Earth and easy to talk with, but will know what is important to him and unafraid to make that known to me when we are together. If I do or say something that he doesn't like or is inappropriate he will make it clear to me, I'm his own way, that I am crossing a line and will be dealt with, hopefully at a later time. But, I still would like to enjoy being with him and have a good time when we are together both in public and at home. I would hope we'd be friends as well as partners. I'm a real: Kik, OTKGirl
Our first dateI'd like him to take me to his favorite place: restaurant/club/ or his home ( for a cooked meal) and chose what he thinks would be good for me, be it food or drink.. Then he would take me to a scenic spot where we could relax and talk.. about ourselves, our lives, and maybe a funny story or two.. Perhaps we would take a walk, hold hands and just enjoy the beauty of where we were before he takes me home.. At my door, as we say our good nights, he might give me a gentle kiss and tell me he'd like to see me again. And either on this date or the one to come, he would share that he was into domestic discipline and that that was something I needed to consider. (But deep down.. I'd be happy). Id like to hang out, at hangouts, got it?



Sexual Activities

Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkDepends on the person
Night life:Intimate gatherings in my home, Movies, Munches

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, I need the real thing
Oral Sex isMy favorite
Anal sex isGreat with the right partner
Sex toys:Dildos/Vibrators
Size matterNo, Not at all
"Off Limits":Blood, bodily fluids except semen, extreme pain, kids and animals, electric shock, breath play, anal hooks,, and anything involving same sex (girl on girl, man on man, including oral, anal or basic sex)

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyAside from being spanked by a man in business attire, I fantasize about being a little girl, not a baby, but somewhere in age from 8-14 and having a "daddy" that would take care of me, provide for me, "love" me (eventually), "raise me" or teach me to be a good girl using his life experiences and education... And discipline me when I fall short or are outright disobedient, disrespectful, dishonest or put myself or others in danger.. I think about the possibility that this might be more than just a "fantasy" that lives in my mind and that I might like to try this dynamic out for size.
Fantasy locationKitchen
Fantasy sex partner:There are two men that I find very attractive and that I have an affinity for and those are: (I think this is his name)
Eric Strickman and Michael Masterson.
I watched a video that had Mr. Strickman and Samantha Wood let in it. And he was very adept with a belt.. He would, I think, be my ultimate fantasy (sex) partner.