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Tell me something girl, are you happy in this modern world?

Or do you need more? Is there something else you're searching for? I'm falling...In all the good times I find myself... Longing for change...

Yes, I want more, much more. A man who understands that song will know that some girls in this modern world still want a good man to lead and be a man. I am not here to be used or abused. I am not a slave, and I am not a mindless sub who has no brain or voice of her own. If you are not attracted to smart, intelligent women I suggest you keep moving, because there is nothing here for you.

I am often in the spanking chat room if you care to seek me out. However, please know I am picky. I am a spankee looking for a good man 45-60 yrs old who wants a real life relationship. I don't smoke or do drugs and I only drink occasionally. I am looking for a balance of vanilla life with HOH/tih, D/s and DD. I am pretty, but curvy and need to lose some (size 14-16). However, I am active and healthy and I workout. I take very good care of myself and I look for the same in a partner. I am private and moderately conservative. I have a good sense of humor and love life. I am a little sassy/bratty at times because I am fairly intelligent, and I am looking for a man who enjoys that vibe because he understands how to deal with it firmly but affectionately (usually over his knee). However, I am not one to cause drama and most of the time I just want to be loving and supportive because at heart I am a true submissive. I am serious about my kink, but I don't do casual play OR FWB. Looking for the ONE. I do enjoy chat and making friends so don't hesitate to ask me for a chat if you think you are a contender for the ONE :)

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageItalian
BuildCurvy
Height163 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthVery long
Best featureSmile
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo problems

Situation

Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenChildren don't live with me
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateYes
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
SpecialtyEducation / Academic
Employment StatusFull-time

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Sensitivity, Wit
My perfect matchI can't do ugly or smelly or ex-druggie or alcoholic. If you posted nude pics of yourself or your sex member just forget it. I am looking for a classy man. Seriously. If you send me a pic that looks like you never shower and do nothing but play with yourself don't expect a reply. If you send me a pic please dress in a comfortable but ATTRACTIVE outfit. Also if you contact me and it's obvious you did not read my profile I won't chat long.

I am looking for a good man of sound mind and body who does not smoke, use drugs or abuse alcohol, nor is he addicted to porn. Be a person of faith and character who wants a loving HOH-tih monogamous relationship eventually leading to a 24-7 forever relationship. I am not afraid of the M word and nor should you, we are not getting younger. But I will take my time getting there to ensure I find the right one and I won't have casual sex with you along the way, not into FWB, looking for the ONE.

Be active and take care of yourself by exercising and making good health choices and have excellent hygiene, because I do and it is a high priority of mine. With that said, I have a few extra pounds, about a size 14-16, so if you are looking for that perfect unicorn keep looking. I would rather have a larger man than a thinner man but not morbid. You will be strong-minded and intelligent. Conservative more than liberal but not a bigot. Its ok to open my door and be a gentleman...I adore a man who is old fashion. Think the 1950's in a new millennial mindset.

Be vanilla in the real world, comfortable in church and other real-world social settings, but chocolate in the bedroom. Yes, I have some Ds hard limits, but can also take good old fashion daddy like discipline.
Our first dateDinner and a walk somewhere we can get to know each other and laugh.
If you can't laugh we will not suit well.