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To spank or be spanked...

Male (57) looking for Female Aurora, Colorado, United States

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I'm a switch...I'm more of a submissive switch, I would guess than anything, in that I love to spank but I crave to BE spanked. I will spank you however you wish and how hard you wish, but I love to be spanked hard. Because I do like to be spanked (well, maybe not when it's happening, but I love the marks afterward), I am a very conscientious spanker in that I know which instruments to use just hard enough to sting or to really wallop if that's what you're looking for.

I'm looking for a long-term relationship, with LOTS of tasty (I'm VERY oral) and spanking fun.

I'm turned on by women in street clothes, not leather. I love a shaved pussy as much as the next guy, but the true turn-on, for me, is the woman who is so confident that she doesn't shave...like the hairy pussy, love hairy underarms, and legs. If a woman takes care of her feet, I'll be all over them. Don't get me wrong, I like women with larger breasts, but I'm not like most guys in that I LOVE smaller breasts...the smaller, the better! Let's see...women whose inner pussy lips are huge...I just want to suck on them, nibble on them like bubble gum...YUMMY! I LOVE it when women cum, especially when I'm the one who's caused it...the smells, the sounds, the squirting.... Can I please eat you out after you spank me (or after I've spanked you)? Actually, I'm fascinated by women from the belly button down to the toes. Don't get me wrong, I love nipples, but from the waist down? I will lick anywhere and everywhere you wish!! I love the Leda stuff, or the "Women Who Spank Men" website. I'm also turned on by the Cruel Amazons website, but I'm not sure I'd want to go that far...maybe, with the right partner...

I have an extensive "toybox" with shackles, spreaders, dildos, cats, whips, canes, paddles, and other "stuff. I think my favorites are a leather paddle and a smaller cat that are perfect for over the knee (and the whip makes a good 'private' punisher...have cum from being whipped with that occasionally...literally had the "spunk" whipped out of me) which I love. I also love to have a woman sit on my back while she whips my ass (crack shots? Where I have to spread my ass cheeks so she can punish my asshole) or sit on my back holding my arms while another woman whips my ass...this would definitely prove that women can humble me. I I like to be bent over the edge of the bed or on the bed propped up on pillows for a good strapping or caning, hands on the wall for a paddling or strapping (especially where she's got a good grip on my penis...get hard...don't cum)...there are so many variations...and I love to punish in all of these variations as well.

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildA few extra pounds
Height178 cm
Eye ColorGreen
Hair ColorDark blonde
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairNone
Best featureEyes
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo problems
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Thick
CircumcisedYes
My AttractivenessAverage

Situation

Relationship StatusLiving together
Has childrenTwo
Wants kidsYes
Housing SituationFriends come over often
Living ArrangementsWith kid(s)
Wants to RelocateYes
AvailabilityDiscreetly
Has a carYes

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Money, Power, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness, Passiveness
My perfect matchA woman who knows what she wants in life (in other words: goals). I'd like a woman who knows what she likes sexually and who knows her body and how to get what she wants.
Our first dateGetting to know each other, what we like, dislike...whether we're going to be a good fit. If a spanking happens, so much the better, but not necessary (at least not on the first date).

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all
My role isSwitch
I am seekingSomeone to play with
I live the lifestyleOnly in the bedroom
I enjoyBiting, body worship, Bondage, Breast / nipple torture, Chastity devices, CBT (cock & ball torture), Depilation / shaving, Enemas / douching / klismaphilia, Fisting, Femdom, Foot / shoe worship, Genital torture, Hair pulling, Physical humiliation, Power exchange, Spanking, Verbal humiliation, Voyeurism, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner
My most pleasurable encounter wasLater...when I get to know you better.

Fetishes

FetishesArmpits, Exhibitionism, Feathers, Lace / Lingerie, Medical / Enema, Panty, Tickling, Trampling, ring, Tongue Fetish, Voyeurism, Other

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Rarely, so I'm looking!
Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Most partners at once:Threesome M/F/F
Dirty talkDepends on the person
Night life:Strip clubs, Swapping parties, Intimate gatherings in my home, Regular Bars, Adult book stores, Movies

Sexual Interests

CybersexEvery once in a while
Oral Sex isIt's OK, but I prefer penetration
Anal sex isI love it
Sex toys:Anal beads, Butt plugs/probes, Clitoral stimulator, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Office supplies, Strap-ons
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":Scat, children, animals

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Hard with hand or implement
Role:I prefer both roles
Use safety words:Sometimes
Turns me on:Watch spanking porn, I'm always in the mood, Be scolded and told that I've been bad, Being sent to a room to wait, The Closure / Forgiveness, Being Told to Remove Pants, Being Told to Assume the Position, Being Told to Fetch the Implement, Be surprised and taken without any warning
I like to wear:Nope...spankings should be on the bare.
Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Hands bracing ankles or knees, Over the masters lap, Head or waist between legs, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Bent under the arm, Lying on back with legs raised towards chest, Handcuffed to bed, Tied to doorway, Tied to something outside in a safe area, Legs in splits position, Other
Implement:Hand, Cane, Riding Crop, Switch (rod), Birch, Rulers / Martinet, Hairbrush, Shoes, Belt, Wooden Spoon, Tawse, Other
Response:Embarrassment / Obedience
Pain level:Heavy Marks

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:I relish in regular discipline
I'm seeking:Long Term relationships with play
Desired Persona:Changes with my partners
I like to wear:Casual straight wear, Lingerie and stockings, Other