I'm a switch...I'm more of a submissive switch, I would guess than anything, in that I love to spank but I crave to BE spanked. I will spank you however you wish and how hard you wish, but I love to be spanked hard. Because I do like to be spanked (well, maybe not when it's happening, but I love the marks afterward), I am a very conscientious spanker in that I know which instruments to use just hard enough to sting or to really wallop if that's what you're looking for.
I'm looking for a long-term relationship, with LOTS of tasty (I'm VERY oral) and spanking fun.
I'm turned on by women in street clothes, not leather. I love a shaved pussy as much as the next guy, but the true turn-on, for me, is the woman who is so confident that she doesn't shave...like the hairy pussy, love hairy underarms, and legs. If a woman takes care of her feet, I'll be all over them. Don't get me wrong, I like women with larger breasts, but I'm not like most guys in that I LOVE smaller breasts...the smaller, the better! Let's see...women whose inner pussy lips are huge...I just want to suck on them, nibble on them like bubble gum...YUMMY! I LOVE it when women cum, especially when I'm the one who's caused it...the smells, the sounds, the squirting.... Can I please eat you out after you spank me (or after I've spanked you)? Actually, I'm fascinated by women from the belly button down to the toes. Don't get me wrong, I love nipples, but from the waist down? I will lick anywhere and everywhere you wish!! I love the Leda stuff, or the "Women Who Spank Men" website. I'm also turned on by the Cruel Amazons website, but I'm not sure I'd want to go that far...maybe, with the right partner...
I have an extensive "toybox" with shackles, spreaders, dildos, cats, whips, canes, paddles, and other "stuff. I think my favorites are a leather paddle and a smaller cat that are perfect for over the knee (and the whip makes a good 'private' punisher...have cum from being whipped with that occasionally...literally had the "spunk" whipped out of me) which I love. I also love to have a woman sit on my back while she whips my ass (crack shots? Where I have to spread my ass cheeks so she can punish my asshole) or sit on my back holding my arms while another woman whips my ass...this would definitely prove that women can humble me. I I like to be bent over the edge of the bed or on the bed propped up on pillows for a good strapping or caning, hands on the wall for a paddling or strapping (especially where she's got a good grip on my penis...get hard...don't cum)...there are so many variations...and I love to punish in all of these variations as well.