I am a good man who is seeking something real, with genuine potential toward the long term.
You are in your later thirties or maybe in your forties. You are wise enough not to leap too soon, but know that trust and chemistry are the touchstones of deeper intimacy. You have a thing for men who can be erudite but lighthearted, dashing but laid back, with nothing to hide and open to genuine commitment should the sparks fly.
You are an intelligent woman with an interest in cultural pastimes beyond watching TV, such as reading, exploring museums, and going to live performance venues. You are open to trying new foods, destinations and experiences, even if your own sense of style and point of view might be considered mainstream or even classic. You can find a witty man attractive who is progressive and artistic in his social leanings, yet more traditional in his personal and private life, the sort of unpretentious intellectual who likes that you've earned the respect of those who disagree with you, and who admires you for your mind as much as your other attractive attributes.
You are a nice person whose friends would describe as genuinely kind and considerate, and sweet natured even if you can have your bad days. You may not be the most self-disciplined person in the world, but you believe in moderation in most things, while your indulgences are rarely actually bad for you and never put others at risk. You can find a man endearing who is as kind as he is commanding, as tender as he is masculine, as sentimental as he is practical, a romantic realist who disagrees when people say you are too softhearted, and finds it a praiseworthy and attractive thing.
You are a good girl, even if you took some teasing for it. You still like to let your hair down and let go with the best of them, and you know it's not really "good girls don't" since all girls do, but you've always felt better about things when you are submissive in the bedroom, and the thought of being swept off your feet makes your heart pound . You have a passionate soul, even when veiled by your heart's own sense of restraint, you just prefer the man to lead the dance, as it were, when the time has come to let your propriety flutter to the floor and you are wearing only the candlelight and his eyes. And you will always have a profound appreciation of knee-weakening romance, breathtaking passion, and the finer points of a good spanking.
And you know it is time you found the man who will simply love that you are who you are.